While fewer children and youth have been sick with COVID-19 compared to adults, the COVID-19 pandemic has still had a major impact on their lives. Though typically resilient to everyday stressors, children and youth are dealing with new challenges due to COVID-19, like social distancing, changes to their routines, and a lost sense of security and safety, making them especially vulnerable to feeling stressed, anxious, or depressed.
For some children, these challenges are exacerbated by the disproportionate impact of COVID-19 on their communities. Black and Hispanic Americans, in particular, have faced a disproportionate share of COVID-19 cases in the United States, and Black and Hispanic students were less likely to have access to online learning.
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The tools on this webpage were created to teach skills that can help children and youth cope with some of the challenges associated with the pandemic, like:
You can find more information about these on the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s webpage on COVID-19 Parental Resources.
With practice, these skills can help children and youth recognize how their feelings are influenced by what they think and what they do. The skills can be useful in dealing with COVID-related challenges and other everyday stressors now and as they grow into adulthood.
In addition to COVID-related stresses, some children and youth are experiencing stress or trauma related to other issues. Current or historic events such as systemic racism or discrimination based on race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, gender identity, socioeconomic status, religion, or cultural background can have significant impact on emotional wellbeing. Even though these tools cannot address factors like discrimination, the skills may help children cope in difficult times and difficult situations they cannot control.
Children and youth who are feeling serious anxiety or depression likely need more than what these tools can provide. If symptoms are more severe or long lasting, consider seeking out additional help. Our Additional Resources page has some options for finding more information or connecting with a mental health provider.
The Board on Children, Youth, and Families expresses its thanks to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention for its critical support for this project.
BCYF also thanks the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation and the Jacobs Foundation for their critical support of the leadership activities of BCYF. This project was made possible by the contributions of scientific experts, Spanish-speaking volunteers who assisted with translation, and family advocates who provided input throughout the project process.
Why? Many children and teens struggle with feelings of stress, anxiety, and depression, particularly during the pandemic. These tools were created to promote the mental and emotional wellbeing of children and youth – during the COVID-19 crisis and beyond.
How? The National Academies of Sciences, Engineering, and Medicine (NASEM) made this project possible with funding from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). NASEM brought together a group of experts to develop ways to help children and youth with difficulties they face every day. Together with experts at ICF, they created tools, based on cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), to help reduce stress, anxiety, and depression. The tools are meant for children and youth directly, and for parents to help children and youth with stress, anxiety, and depression. Teachers and other caregivers may also be able to use these resources.
More information about this project and the group of experts is available on the project webpage: https://www.nationalacademies.org/our-work/promoting-emotional-well-being-and-resilience.
Stress is a normal reaction to everyday pressures. Pressures may come from outside a person’s body (something that happens to you) or from the inside a person’s body (something you are feeling). Some stress can be helpful, like giving a person a boost of energy and feeling of urgency to study for a test. But having too much stress at once or having a lot of stress for a long time without enough breaks, can make life hard and cause problems with thinking and with doing day-today activities. When children or teens feel stressed, they may:
Anxiety is an emotion of fear or worry about things that might happen in the future, or fear or worry about one’s safety, or the safety of others. Many children and teens have fears or worries, but some have so many fears and worries that they interfere with school, home, or play activities. When children or teens feel anxious, their muscles may tense, and their breathing and heartbeat may become more rapid. They might also have stomachaches, other body aches or pains, feel tired all the time, or have trouble sleeping. They might have upsetting thoughts that are hard to control. Sometimes, anxiety can make a child or teen irritable or angry. Some anxious children and teens keep their worries to themselves, or might not even be aware of them, and, thus, the symptoms can be missed. Examples of different types of anxiety that can cause difficulties with daily life include
Depression. Occasionally being sad or feeling hopeless is a part of every child and teen’s life. However, some children and teens feel sad or uninterested in things that they used to enjoy, or feel helpless or hopeless in situations they are able to change. When someone experiences depression, their eating and sleeping habits may change, they may feel tired and lack motivation to do things that they typically enjoy, feel bad about themselves, feel more irritable, and they might pull away from their friends and family. They might also have stomachaches or headaches. They might have trouble sleeping or may sleep too much.Some children and teens may not talk about their helpless and hopeless thoughts, and may not appear sad. Depression might also cause a child or teen to make trouble or act unmotivated, causing others not to notice that the child is depressed or to incorrectly label the child as a troublemaker or lazy. Examples of behaviors often seen in children and teens with depression include
Managing Symptoms. Although experiencing feelings of stress, anxiety, or depression may be difficult, it’s important to remember that these feelings can change, and there are tools that can help children and teens learn to manage feelings and help them cope.
Coping with these feelings can increase confidence and bring a greater sense of control. But sometimes children and teens can’t cope with these feelings on their own. When that happens, it is important to get help.
Stress can be caused by a many things. Sometimes the cause is a specific situation that might be very difficult like…
When stress is caused by events like this, the uncomfortable feelings can go away after the event is over. Many people also experience stress that lasts a long time without a break like…
Thoughts, feelings, and behaviors can be difficult to manage when stressful factors like these feel outside of a person’s control. Cognitive behavioral therapy skills can help a person focus on what they can control.
Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) works by helping a person notice how their thoughts affect how they feel and behave. CBT helps them turn unhelpful thoughts around to more helpful thoughts so they feel better. Experts tell us that CBT is the gold standard of therapy for children, teens, and adults who are experiencing stress, anxiety, and depression.
The word “cognitive” refers to what we think, and the word “behavioral” to what we do. CBT can help children and teens…
CBT won’t be able to fix all the things that make someone feel stressed, anxious, or depressed, but it can help them cope with those feelings and feel better.
These tools don’t teach every part of CBT, only some of the most tested and easy-to-use skills. Although these tools can’t take the place of a mental health provider, they can help children and teens learn how to better cope with everyday stress and anxiety.
NOTE: It takes time to learn a new habit, usually 30 to 60 days, so it’s important for children and teens to keep practicing these skills regularly. They will not only benefit today, but will build resilience and help manage future stress throughout life’s journey.
The CBT skills we teach here can help children and teens deal with stress, anxiety, and depression, and can provide parents, teachers, and other caregivers with tools to help children and teens learn new ways of coping. Here are some of the CBT skills we cover in these tools:
There are other thinking traps too. Examples include “self-blame,” or thinking things are always their own fault even when those things are outside of their control; “mind reading,” or thinking that they know other people are thinking negatively about them; “should statements” or telling themselves they should or must do something that they might not be able to do; and “catastrophic thinking,” or focusing on the worst possible outcomes of something.
The language we use to describe people and experiences is important. It signifies how we express ourselves and how other people see us. Many times, in English or Spanish, we use different forms of nouns, pronouns, or adjectives that are based on assumptions about a person’s gender. Many people may not view this as a problem. But, for some people, assumptions about gender are not accurate, and can be harmful. Gender inclusive language is used throughout the modules to ensure that all children and teens can connect to our scenarios. They, them, and theirs are pronouns frequently used to refer to a single person when we are not aware of the person’s gender, and/or when a person does not identify as a boy/man or a girl/woman. For example, if a person notices that someone left an item in a classroom but the person does not know who it belongs to, the person might say “Oh no, someone left their water bottle” using “their” as a gender neutral pronoun. In Spanish, gender inclusive language is sometimes created using an –e, rather than a feminine –a or a masculine –o.
If you or your child or teen are in need of immediate support, the Lifeline network is available 24/7 across the United States. You can call (800) 273-8255 or text 741741.
If you are looking to find a provider who can support you or your child’s mental health, you can visit the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration and Mental Health America treatment locators. Cognitive behavioral therapists can be found on the Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapies website. The American Psychological Association also has a resource page dedicated to COVID-19.
To learn more about the COVID-19 pandemic, visit the websites for the CDC or the NIH.
For additional help, visit our Resources page.
This resource was developed by ICF, an independent third-party contractor, with oversight from a group of experts* acting in their individual capacities convened by the National Academies of Sciences, Engineering, and Medicine and with funding from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC, 200-2011-38807/75D30120F00087). Any findings, recommendations, or conclusions in this resource are not necessarily endorsed or adopted by the expert panel members, the National Academies, the CDC, or ICF.
These tools are not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this website.
*For more information about the group of experts, go to https://www.nationalacademies.org/our-work/promoting-emotional-well-being-and-resilience